Our nation hosted the Southeast Asian (SEA) Games this year and we came in second, bagging a total of 84 goals, a record for the country! What a joy! And obviously, we took the opportunity to participate as spectators and attended the carnival held at the Sports hub.
I’m pretty sure that many families have brought their children to the carnival. There were stations for the kids to try out the various sports and activities. I was hoping Faith would enjoy the carnival but the fact is she didn’t.
It was terribly hot that day we went down and she wasn’t in the mood to try out anything which was a real pity. The other kids who were with us enjoyed sweating it out and I could only envy them.
In the end, she was contented with just the colouring activity. How interesting. I have always thought that she is an active child who loves running around and trying out new stuff. I would very much prefer that she likes the outdoors because her mom is one who adores being in the open. I am hoping that she would eventually develop a love for triathlon or marathon because these are sports which I was crazy about at one point in my life (now still am but I have to reserve them for later years).
Just look how ‘stoned’ she was while trying out hockey. *Faint*
I’m still trying to figure out what she is good at at this point in time. At the very least, I would try to expose her to all kinds of things, whether it be an indoor or outdoor activity. And definitely, I would allow her to follow her passion once she finds it.
Growing up, I did not have the opportunity to develop myself in other areas except in the academic domain. The only sports that my mother got me to learn is swimming because she believes that everyone must learn how to swim since we are surrounded by water. I soon got quite good at it and my coach even assured my mom that I would be able to achieve much if I continue to train. As a 7YO child, that was the highest compliment one could give me. Sadly, my mom decided that studies were more important than passion and stopped me from pursuing it. Isn’t it sad?
I hope I would not follow my mom’s footsteps. I don’t deny that academic education is important but if a child shows talents in other forms, we should allow him to shine in those areas too, no?
That’s us supporting the waterskiiing and wakeboarding events.
I guess it is still too early to tell if she is a sporty kind of girl or one who loves to be indoors or both. We just need to give her the opportunity to be exposed to all sorts of activities and see if she is keen in any area.
More importantly, it is our desire that she would pursue God first above all others. 😉
Amen to your last sentence! We’re trying to expose our kids to sports or anything they want to try. I hope to give my kids time and space to explore, and if they decide to pursue in their interest rather than getting a degree, I hope to be just as supportive (just praying that I don’t succumb to social pressure!)
I agree with you. In fact, the hubs and I got to the same point too. That should Faith ended up not getting a degree (or the like), would I still be okay?
I’m not sure about the value of a degree in future. But I sure hope that she would be doing something that she loves and one that would impact others in a positive manner.
We need to constantly remind ourselves that the kids belong to the Lord…
Let’s press on in this journey!