Besides the above question, I would also like to ask another one:
To those who are trying for one: Why do you want to have kids?
To those who have started a family: Why do you have kids?
I suspect our answer to this second question might have some impact as to how we want to bring up our children.I might be wrong but there is no harm in asking. =p
Again, there’s no right or wrong answer to this question. While you are reflecting on it, have a mocha muffin. My treat. =)