I love making lists and resolutions. Each year, I take the last few days of December, reflect and note down what I want to achieve the following year. I find that life gets so busy that you just go with the flow and without you realizing, the year’s over.
When I hit the big 3, I bothered to list down 30 stuff that I want to do within that year but I stopped making lists or resolutions after Faith turned one year old because I simply couldn’t find the time to do so anymore. My last post for the 30 list is here. So, when Rachel of Catch 40 Winks suggested this blog train earlier in the year, I gladly accepted doing the blog post.
So, here’s my 15 things that I will do differently in 2015 in no order of preference.
:: Record Faith’s developmental progress faithfully
I’ve been real slack in this area. Once Faith turns one year old, this mommy slowed down and got lazy and forgot to record her milestones. So, this year, I hope to do so every 2 months.
:: Blog about each playdate
We started the playdate/co-op in March last year and we are so happy that a group of mummies decided to continue with it. This year, I want to record every session on this platform as a form of resource for others to use. It’s also heartwarming to trace how the children progress as the months go by.
:: Catch up with friends regularly
I have been focusing a lot on family (in-laws included) since Faith was born and sometimes I feel that I have neglected my friends. On rare occasions, I would meet up with the closer ones and realised I so missed those conversations and laughter that we have had. This year, I hope to connect with them again. Friendship takes time and effort to blossom as with any other relationship and I shouldn’t take them for granted.
:: Read and review 10 books
Oh, reading! I read a lot of cookbooks and children’s books but I don’t want to count them in. What I’m referring to books are those that nourish the soul. Besides the Bible, I hope to read more and pen some thoughts about the books that I have read.
:: Try out new recipes and blog about them
So, I have dishes that I am familiar with and more often than not, I would prepare those for meals. It can get boring obviously and thankfully, the hubs didn’t complain. But I do find it less than exciting when I have to cook the same dishes again and again. This year, I would cook more new dishes and hopefully blog about some of them.
:: Climb stairs
Busy, busy, busy. Where to find the time to exercise? To solve that problem (excuse), I would not take the lift but climb the stairs whenever Faith is not with me.
:: Couple time once a fortnight
I know couple time is so important and we are encouraged to have time together once a week or so. But I regret to share that the hubs and I spent only about 5 times last year together sans Faith. So sad, right? It takes effort, more from me, to want to go out without the little one. I think the hubs is more than happy to spend time with me. So, I need to let go and try to spend more time with the man this year. Once a fortnight…. hopefully, this is achievable!
:: Do my BSF home work dutifully every day and not attempt it at the last hour
This year is my third year with Bible Study Fellowship (BSF) and to be honest, most of the time, I did my homework rather last minute. This year, I resolve to do it daily to allow God’s word to speak to me. It’s helpful now that I have about 2 hours of quiet time when Faith is in school so that I could really meditate on His word.
:: Be consistent with family devotion with Faith
I fail as a Christian mother if I have not brought Faith up with Christian values and knowledge about her saviour, Jesus Christ. Last year, I tried to have devotion with her but it is not consistent and it lacked structure. This year, our family is going to be more deliberate about it and have family devotions using resources from BSF and the like.
:: Turn in by 10.30pm
I used to turn in around 9pm when I was working but now with a kid, I tend to stay up late because after Faith falls asleep, that is really the time that I could do my own stuff. But I also know that sleeping late is not good for my body so I would turn in by 10.30pm from now on!
:: Run or brisk walk for 30 minutes at least once a week
Exercising is still something I hope to do even if I’m busy because I see the benefits it gives. I hope to run/ brisk walk and to drag the hubs along. I always feel uplifted after a run so that should continue!
:: Drink at least 2 litres of water daily. Coffee is not counted
Drinking water helps flush the toxins in our body. I know this theory but I don’t always act on it. This year, I resolve to drink at least 2 litres of water daily. Any form of sugared water is not counted.
:: Document ten bento boxes
I started making Bentos this year and I find much joy in doing so even though it takes up time. I like the surprised look on Faith whenever I open the cover of the bento and I will blog about 10 Bento boxes that I’ve made this year.
:: Learn to make five Peranakan dishes
Okay, I always cannot fulfil this goal because I really find it difficult to understand the spices that are used in Peranakan dishes. I don’t know how they work together to bring out the flavour. I grew up with Cantonese cuisine and I know how each condiment or sauce works and blends with one another but for Peranakan dishes, I would need more help in it. Hopefully, I could master 5 dishes by this year!
:: Go on hikes
I love hiking but that activity came to a complete stop after Faith was born. I want to bring the family close to nature and this year, I want to attempt hiking again… erm locally for a start.
So, there you go, my 15 in 2015. What will you do differently this year? For more inspiration, click on the badge above to see what other mommy bloggers have planned for themselves. Next on the blog train is Pauline, a mother-of-two, a home cook, a baker and a crafter. She has been a SAHM for almost 7 years now and she’s still enjoying every minute of being one. Days with the children, to her, are never dull and having a hobby or something interesting to be kept busy with makes life so much more easier. Beyond her interest in cooking, baking and sewing, blogging keeps her sane as she shares with many like-minded moms about her struggles, moments of pride and everything in between, so visit her blog tomorrow to find out more! Check out her food and craft blog too!